Know when to KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.

Would You Just SHUT UP?!

Yeah, this is what our mind is screaming if there's an exasperating creature beside us who keeps on babbling.

Also, this is a bit of a difficult question to answer but I tried to figure it out "How". 

I know that there are lot of people "men" and "women" who talk too much (well I'm one of them).

But it is not really good in a certain way, especially if it's about your relationship.

You're human not a machine gun.

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I'm not only talking about arguing in a certain problem or you know: misunderstanding.

(we all know that we really cannot stop blahblah-ing in that kind of situation)

But what I'm talking about is our most common mistake when we are in a relationship, we all tend to be comfortable with our partner's that is why most of the time, our mouth is prone to the most annoying, most disgusting and most surprising revelations that we shouldn't even tell anyone including our significant other's.

If you are not yet married, it is NOT okay to tell everything to your partner.

What I mean is sometimes we have to keep ourselves or our private lives a lil' bit mysterious for them

Or else you might scare the love of your life and lose them for the rest of your life. Get it?

So if you want your relationship to stay as long as you want it to be. 

Do what the picture say's

Now, get ready and try to feel and somehow realize my advice,

it would be a good opportunity to take it up as I will be giving everybody else's ears a rest. 

So listen here and zip your mouth for awhile.

In a relationship, there are just times that 

we have to "SSSSSHHH" sometimes.

1. Woe is me. Don’t spend time talking about your problems at length. It makes you look weak. Everyone has problems. She knows & He knows it. If negative issues arise, the best bet is to play the positive role. Be confident that you can handle the obstacles. But acting like your life is one big insurmountable obstacle is not attractive. If you’re doing so badly, why would your partner want to be a part of your world. None of us would want to have an excess baggage to carry, Right? So, even if your life feels sssshhh*@%t sometimes, just try to pretend that everything's alright.

2. Family problems. Shut your mouth on family issues in front of your partner. I know that coming from a dysfunctional family is not uncommon. But, once again, the way you handle that scenario says a lot about who you are. Don’t tell a person or of course your soon to be wife or husband how much you hate your parents, or your life growing up. It sends a red flag. If you can’t at least talk about your parents with respect, he/she is going to believe you wont respect his/her parents either. No one wants a dark cloud following them. Don’t be that dark cloud.

3. Criticism or dislike of his/her friends. Here’s another huge no-no. Constantly tearing down your partner's friends in front of them is one of the quickest ways to end a relationship with a person. Chances are, the people he/she calls friends have been around for a while. You, on the other hand, may be relatively new in his/her life. Who do you think your sweetheart's going to pick? If there is something truly wrong with a friend or a group of his/her friends, point it out, but don’t be overly critical and negative. Give him/her the chance to see things clearly then make a decision from there. If, after everything is said and done, and your lady or your man still doesn’t understand where you’re coming from, consider removing yourself from the equation. 

4. Life choices. No one is perfect. Not even you. Don’t break your partner down over choices they had made that you don’t agree with, especially if it has nothing to do with you. You have to remain objective and be supportive. They're not supposed to do what you want them to do. Your partner runs his/her life, for good or bad. Okay? Also, remember the word "respect".

5. Mean things about his/her family. Shut your mouth if the issue is about family. Seriously. Nobody’s family is perfect, it's just that you’re an outsider. Don’t poke your nose and interject your comments in places where they don’t belong. If he/she asks you what you think, be very diplomatic in how you phrase your words. Especially when your partner asks you what you think about her jerk, alcoholic uncle or mean, money lover aunt. (nah, I was just kidding) But please, be very mindful with your words & comments. You have to make sure that it is not below the belt which can probably hurt your beloved's feeling.

 'xoxo