Well I cannot deny, ALL WOMEN have "issues" every now and then. It's kind of irritating I know, but we really cannot help it. We just have those freakin' hormones. That make us go crazy and unpredictable and annoying most of the time. That's why I somehow try to analyze how guys can cope with a women's insanity. I really pity those good and very sacrificing guys who truly loved their lady, in which they don't know what to do in a certain situation. For example, if they tell the truth, women gets angry. And if they don't women get totally aggravated (which can make things worst.) Of course women really HATE "LYING" in anyways and in anykind, especially if they do know the truth. But sometimes, we do HATE hearing the "TRUTH" as well, it can make us uncomfortable and totally lessen our confidence.
And FYI, it is much more painful to hear the truth than to hear a lie.
So... now, I've come to an idea and a little bit of research. Why sometimes lying can be good for both parties. I know it's kinda confusing but I hope, once you checked the reasons. It can give you a better view of the situation.
Okay, so these are good reasons why "MEN NEEDS TO LIE SOMETIMES"
here we go:
1.) “Do I look fat in this dress?”
You’d better lie if you know what’s good for you. The fact of the matter is, she knows she looks fat in the damn dress,
or she wouldn’t be asking. She’s only asking if she looks fat in the dress because she's fishing to see if, despite the fact
that she’s carrying a few extra pounds, you still consider her attractive. Now chances are, if you love the girl, you’re going
to love her no matter what she weighs, but she still wants to think you’re attracted to her. So even if she does look round in a particular dress,
you’d better make sure you let her know she’s still your personal Athena. The easiest way to do that is to say:
“No baby, not at all. Of course you don’t look fat.”
2.) Your mother doesn’t like her.
If you’re in a serious relationship with someone, it’s going to be important to her that your mother likes her.
Here’s the thing: mothers are only human. It may take a while for your mom to warm up to your love interest,
but by no means do you tell your woman that your mom doesn't like her. Keep it to yourself, as well as any
smart remarks your mom makes about her. And if she asks, you’d better tell your lady that your mom loves her
like the daughter she never had. Over time, your mom will eventually accept the girl, but don’t give her any hang ups early on.
3.) Ex-girlfriend stuff.
As far as your current girlfriend is concerned, she should think she’s the best at everything.
Be it sex, cooking, dancing, belching up beer, your girlfriend had better believe that she’s the best you’ve ever had.
Even if it isn’t the truth, she’d better think it is, or you run the risk of her not doing those things for you anymore
(like, for the rest of your life). And also, do you want to hear this kind of stuff?
“Just ask Jessica to do it, since she’s so much better than me at it. 'ayt, f****n bastard?”
No, right? So even if it ain’t true, your girl better believe she’s better than all the rest.
4.) Other women.
If you’re a cheater, you’ll get caught eventually… jerk. So, don't try to hope. Cause this isn't for you.
This is for the nice guys that get attention from other women. If you get approached often, don’t tell your girlfriend about it.
There’s no point. Don’t tell her how flattered you were, or how hot the chick was. You’re not doing anything but starting a fire.
And most of all! If she catches some hot biiiooord flapping her wings around you, just act like it was nothing to you and immediately detached yourself.
If your girlfriend asks, just say that it meant nothing. And DO YOU VERY BEST to Kill the issue before it becomes one. Save yourself from the trouble.
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I'm not saying that all of these are applicable to everyone's situation.
But what I'm saying is that some of these... can be or truly the naked truth. Right?
Now, guys and girls. I know that we all have our own opinion.
It's either you will agree or disagree with this kind of thinking.
Whatever it is, it will be accepted.
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xoxo,
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